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1)
Identify your anxiety issues
by listing them as individual declaration statements (as
though you were telling somebody that you have each
issue).
For example:
If you feel strong nervousness just before you're about
to interview for a job, then your declaration statement
should be worded something like this:
"I
feel so nervous about interviewing for this job."
OR...
"I
always feel this intense nervousness when I am about to
________."
Don't be afraid to add something to your lists if it
FEELS like a negative or anxious issue to you.
Just remember...THERE
ARE NO WRONG ANSWERS
in these lists! Whatever you're feeling is CORRECT!
2)
Select the first statement on your list, and mentally
visualize
(imagine)
yourself being directly exposed to that issue and
feeling it just as though it was actually happening to
you right now...and notice how much anxiety you feel
when you imagine yourself actually being exposed to that
issue.
In other words, even though you are not yet getting
interviewed for that job, try to make yourself FEEL as
nervous and as anxious as you expect to feel when you
actually ARE being interviewed for the job.
Think about how much stressful anxiety that issue makes
you feel when you imagine yourself being directly
exposed to your disturbing issue or fear as though you
were facing a problem RIGHT NOW. Then give that level of
anxiety a number from 0 10 (with 0 meaning that you
feel no anxiety; and 10 meaning that you feel extreme
anxiety).
The point scale
I am using here is known as the SUD (Subjective Units of
Distress).
The
Subjective Units of Distress (SUD) Anxiety Intensity
Scale works this way:
Rate the emotional intensity of the issue that you are
working on, using a scale of 0 10...
0 = no
emotional intensity; 10 = severe emotional intensity.
If the issue is very distressing for you, then rate it
high on the intensity scale from 6 10.
But if the issue is not very intense for you, then rate
it lower from 1 5.
If you feel absolutely no discomfort from the issue,
then rate that as a 0
(zero).
If you are unsure of which number most closely matches
your intensity level, then just guess at the number.
It doesn't need to be perfect. Just as long as you have
a close enough number by which to rate your
Tap8
Power-Tapping
results.
It often helps
to write this emotional intensity rating number next to
the issue on your list that you're working
on so that you can measure your results after each
subsequent tapping round through all 8 tapping points.
It is very common to notice your anxiety distress levels
decreasing following each tapping round of the
Tap8
Power-Tapping
sequence. However, some issues may take longer to clear
than others.
So, don't get discouraged if you do not see immediate
results from every issue you tap for.
3)
Create a POSITIVE CHOICE Power-Phrase
(an affirmation that
has you making a conscious choice to
do something)
that you will use to replace the negative anxious
issue that you are tapping out with your
Tap8
Power-Tapping
drills.
For example:
If
your negative anxious issue statement is: "I
feel so nervous about doing this job interview."
Then your
Power-Phrase
could be something like: "I
CHOOSE to forgive myself for feeling this way."
Or, it could be even simpler such as: "I
CHOOSE to accept myself just as I am."
Or, if you want the BEST results, you could use them
together such as:
"I
CHOOSE to forgive myself for feeling this way, and I
accept myself just as I am!"
You see, the reason
we create
Power-Phrases
in this manner, is because there is nothing more
powerful that
you can do for yourself than making a DEFINITIVE CHOICE
to do something. And, accepting (as well as loving)
yourself is the BEST thing you can ever do for yourself!
Feeling grateful for having something in your life is
also
a highly powerful affirmation you can use. Therefore,
those statements become extremely POSITIVE
(and life-changing) for you to use on a daily basis.
When creating new Power-Phrases, as long as they are
positive and choice-affirming, you cannot
do them wrong.
4)
Concentrate
Deeply On YOUR FEELINGS, & TAP, TAP, TAP
...continuously, until
your emotional distress has been reduced down to a
tolerable level (when
your number rating drops close to ZERO)!
You will need
to CONCENTRATE DEEPLY on how that issue makes you FEEL
(that
means getting your anxiety soaring to high levels)...while
tapping through all 8 tapping points. It is VERY
important that you really force yourself to FEEL as much
anxious intensity as you can from each issue listed.
That way, the tapping will be the most effective for
reducing the distress you feel from your issues.
Repeat the
statement OUT LOUD, while you tap through all 8
tapping points continuously... until your
remaining stress-intensity has been reduced down to a
tolerable level when you think about that issue.
See Step 5 for a complete sequence run-through.
5)
Here is the complete run-through of the
Tap8
Power-Tapping sequence:
Keep tapping
continuously while you are repeating your anxious issue
statement out loud...like this:
1)
Start tapping on the
Side of
the Hand
(Tapping
Point #1)
(on
either hand),
then concentrate your attention
on your issue, and say your statement
once
OUT LOUD
(if possible)
while you're tapping.
2)
Once you've finished saying the statement one time, stop
tapping on the side of your hand....then start
tapping on your
Upper
Chest
(Tapping
Point #2)
point, while you concentrate on your issue - repeat your
statement
once
out loud.
3) Then
switch to your
Under
Mouth
(Tapping
Point #3)
point and start tapping, while you concentrate on your
issue repeat your statement
once.
4)
Then switch to your
Under Nose
(Tapping
Point #4)
point and start tapping, while you concentrate on your
issue repeat your statement
once.
5)
Then switch to your
Under Eye
(Tapping
Point #5)
point and start tapping, while you concentrate on your
issue repeat your statement
once.
6)
Then switch to your
Side of
Eye
(Tapping Point #6)
point and start tapping, while you concentrate on your
issue repeat your statement
once.
7)
Then switch to your
Inner
Eyebrow
(Tapping
Point #7)
point and start tapping, while you concentrate on your
issue repeat your statement
once.
8)
Then switch to your
Top of
Head
(Tapping
Point #8)
point and start tapping, while you concentrate on your
issue repeat your statement
once.
After you have
tapped through a complete round, think about that
stressful issue again, and really
try to
build your stresslevels back up as much as possible.
Now, if you can still feel strong negative feelings or
stress from an issue, then you should tap out those
remaining feelings IMMEDIATELY
(do more tapping
rounds on that issue).
It
is this consistent tapping, while concentrating on the
issue, that gradually reduces your stress,
fear and
anxiety down to zero:
Repeated tapping effectively acts to reduce the amount
of emotional intensity you're feeling from your negative
issues down to zero (no stress remaining). Each round of
tapping whittles away more and more of the negative
emotional connection between your brain and your body,
so that those negative emotions will no longer have an
affect on you. No amount of tapping will completely
eliminate 100% of your emotions. We're NOT trying to
turn
you into an emotionless zombie, here.
And
using
Tap8
will NOT remove your positive emotions from your life.
And then, we essentially "rewire" your brain (create new
neuron-connections) by replacing that negative emotion
it with a purely positive affirmation, which we proceed
to 'cement into place' by simply repeating it over and
over and over while tapping.
{See
step number 5 again for the complete run-through of the
tapping sequence}
AFTER you have finished tapping on all eight
Power-Tapping
points for your statement...
ALWAYS take a deep breath, and BLOW IT OUT slowly after
you complete every tapping round.
6)
Check to see how you feel about that issue, now.
Notice
whether the anxiety you're feeling from that issue has
decreased from how it felt before you started tapping.
If you still feel some remaining anxiety from the issue,
give it a number on the 0 10 point scale.
If your level of anxiety is still above a 0 (zero), then
you should do additional rounds of
the tapping on all 8 points just like before.
Your goal is to
reduce your anxiety all the way down to zero
(no anxiety remaining)
by
repeating this process.
7)
Repeat this
simple process over and over,
until you no longer feel any anxiety or stress from that
negative issue;
Then, move on
to your next anxiety issue on your list, and repeat the
process as instructed.
8)
You will want to continue to use your Tap8
Power-Tapping on a daily basis,
because you will always encounter new stressful
situations throughout your life. And, once you have
mastered these techniques,
Tap8
will always be there to help you, no matter what you
CHOOSE to do in your life.
Tap8
will always be your faithful servant.
NOTE...
It is very common for
other thoughts or emotions to pop into your mind while
you're tapping. While you're doing
the tapping
exercises, you will likely discover all kinds of new,
unrealized thoughts and emotions that may have been
buried deep within your subconscious mind for
years...possibly even since your early childhood.
If, at anytime, while you're tapping through any of the
exercises in this Tap8
Power-Tapping
course, you notice any other negative thoughts or
stressful emotions popping up, even if they do not
directly apply to the particular exercise you're working
on at the moment, then
you should write them
down, and
take some extra time to tap
for all of those negative issues, as soon as possible!
It's THOSE negative thoughts and emotions that will get
in your way as you go forward in life! |