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Table of Contents

 
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What Causes Your Anxiety?

 
Your Best Anxiety Solution

 
Frequently Asked Questions - 1

 
Procedure For Use

 
Practice Exercises

 
Frequently Asked Questions - 2



 
Module 1
 Removing Emotional Trash

 
Module 2
 Helping You Feel Better
TODAY

 
Module 3
 Helping You Move
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Module 4  Parents' Program

 
Module 5 – Siblings' Program


 
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                           What is the Backward8 Procedure?

The Backward8 method is a simple 7-step process designed to reduce anxiety through mindful repetition, backward counting, and affirmations.


Step 1: Identify Anxiety Issues

List your anxiety triggers as “I” statements, as if telling someone:

For example:

If you feel strong nervousness just before you're about to interview for a job, then your declaration statement should be worded something like this:

"I feel so nervous about interviewing for this job."

OR...

"I always feel this intense nervousness when I am about to ________."
 

Tip: If it feels anxious or negative, include it. There are no wrong answers.


Step 2: Add 87654321

Write 87654321 after each issue.

Example:
I feel so nervous about interviewing for this job, 87654321


Step 3: Create a Power-Phrase

Replace each negative statement with a positive choice-affirmation:

  • I CHOOSE to forgive myself for feeling this way.

  • I CHOOSE to accept myself just as I am.

  • Or combine them for greater effect.

✅ Must include “I CHOOSE.” This reinforces conscious, positive change.


Step 4: Rate the Anxiety (SUD Scale)

The point scale I am using here is known as the SUD (Subjective Units of Distress).

The Subjective Units of Distress (SUD) Anxiety Intensity Scale works this way:

Visualize the situation and rate your distress on a 0–10 scale:

  • 0 = no anxiety

  • 10 = intense anxiety

✍️ Write the number beside the issue.


Step 5: Focus, Count, Repeat

Concentrate deeply on the emotion, then say the full statement out loud:

I feel so nervous about interviewing for this job, 87654321
I CHOOSE to accept myself just as I am.

Repeat continuously while feeling the anxiety until your distress drops significantly.


Step 6: Repeat as Needed

After a round:

  • Re-rate the issue on the 0-10 SUD scale.

  • If anxiety remains, repeat the full process (Step 5) again.

  • Take a deep breath after each round.

Each repetition weakens the emotional charge and helps replace it with positivity.


Step 7: Reassess and Continue

  • Re-rate the issue (0–10).

  • If above 0, continue with more rounds until the anxiety fades.

✅ Key Reminders:

  • Feelings are essential. The method only works if you fully feel the anxiety while counting.

  • Repetition is key. The more you do it, the more effective it becomes.

  • Use it daily. New stressors will arise. Backward8 is your tool for ongoing emotional clarity.


Practice. Feel. Repeat. Heal.
The more you FEEL while counting, the faster you release anxiety.
Backward8 rewires negative emotion into positive self-acceptance and calm.


            Backward8
will always be your faithful servant.
:-)


If you still feel any anxiety remaining, repeat the entire procedure (as outlined above)
over and over until you're no longer feeling any anxiety intensity at all.

Remember, Practice Makes Perfect!
But, repetition, repetition, repetition...is the mother of all learning
(and, in this case...it is also the key to all healing).


By far, THE most important thing needed for the Backward8 course
to work for eliminating your anxiety is... 

FEELINGS
You MUST be willing to allow yourself to FEEL the feeling of the distressful anxiety of your issues.

Backward8 works if you are actually FEELING the emotions you are working on.
So, always REMEMBER that you must be DEEPLY FEELING the emotions you are working for.

This means that you need to get the intensity of your anxiety soaring to high levels while counting.


Backward8 works well for reducing the intensity of our negative emotional FEELINGS.
Just keep doing this process of backward counting, while repeating your anxious thought
statement OUT LOUD over, and over, and over...until you can no longer FEEL any anxiety
or emotional distress when thinking about that issue.
Repeating this for each and every issue on your list will quickly desensitize your anxiety...
and will dramatically reduce your nervousness and stress!

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