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Course Pages:
Table of Contents
Read THIS Page First
What Causes Your Anxiety?
Your Best Anxiety Solution
Frequently
Asked Questions - 1
Procedure
For Use
Practice Exercises
Frequently
Asked Questions - 2
Module 1
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Removing Emotional Trash
Module 2 –
Helping You Feel Better TODAY
Module 3 –
Helping You Move FORWARD
Module 4 – Parents' Program
Module 5 – Siblings' Program
Help Guide
Helpful Offers For You
My
Mission For Backward8
Courses
Contact Us
TGNOW Pages:
Self Esteem For Women
By G. S. Hansen
The Girl With
Self-Esteem Issues: A Memoir
By Rosie Mercado
The Self-Esteem
Workbook For Women
By Megan Maccutcheon
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It is not
possible to neutralize your feelings of self-loathing or self-hatred
until you have
broken the mind-body connections to the underlying emotional issues that
are causing
your bad feelings about yourself.
Backward8
Exercise for
Neutralizing Any
Feelings of Self-Loathing or
Self-Hatred You May Have About Yourself
Now you will discover how potent the
Backward8
procedure truly is at
breaking the emotional connections from each negative feeling you have
about yourself!
DO THIS
FIRST:
Make a
list of everything you don't like
(or even hate)
about yourself.
Don't be
afraid to add something to the list if it feels stressful to you.
Please try to be as specific as possible. And just remember....
THERE ARE
NO WRONG ANSWERS!!!
Start each
statement in your list with the letter
–
I
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I've
given you several good examples so you will know exactly
what you need to do. You are welcome to use these stressful
examples in your list, and add more of your own. These
examples are offered to help REMIND you of many different
types of common stressful issues.
You
SHOULD STILL work through all of these examples
even if they do not directly apply to your own situation.
Also, wherever you see a blank spot in a phrase, such as
__________, please fill in the blank your own appropriate
response – if possible (and if it
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What do I hate or loathe about my body, my appearance, my personality, etc.?
I
often feel like my face is too masculine,
I often feel like my my female mannerisms are not good
enough,
I keep doubting my ability to ______ as a female,
I don't feel very confident in myself and my abilities when
it comes to ______,
I don't know if I am good enough to ______ as a female,
I just don't know if I can _______ as a girl,
I wish my breasts were bigger,
I feel like I am not as strong at passing as a female in
______,
I don't feel like my voice is feminine enough to help me
pass as a girl,
I don't like how my figure looks,
I really wish my body hair was GONE,
I don't think I am feminine enough to _______,
I don't think my ______ is/are very attractive,
I wish my shoulders and arms weren't so huge in my tops,
I feel like such a big loser,
I don't feel like I deserve to be a successful girl,
I feel like I am not worthy of having good things in my
life,
I feel like other kids are laughing at me,
I can't help feeling like everybody thinks of me as a big freak,
Please add more examples
of your own to this list.
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Note:
Whenever you clear out the anxious intensity from the negative
aspects of an issue, it can be extremely helpful
if you replace that negative issue with an empowering,
positive CHOICE statement (a
Backward8
Power-Phrase).
And, there is nothing more empowering than making a
definitive choice to do something. That is why this
next step gives you a positive-choice affirmation
immediately following the removal of a negative issue using
the special anxiety-clearing exercises in this
Backward8
course.
PLUS, this step will help to make it a permanent habit for
you to automatically LINK a positive thought to any negative
issue, so that whenever something negative happens to you, a
positive thought will immediately
and automatically pop into your mind –
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DO THIS SECOND:
Create Your Backward8
Power-Phrases...
Write "Even
though" in front
of each of your statements,
and
add 87654321 after your statements.
Then, add the following
words to the end of your statement:
"I
CHOOSE to love and accept
myself completely –
just as I am!"
For example:
If your statement was...
"I feel
like my voice is too feminine, and I'll never pass as a female."
Your new statement would then become:
"Even though
I feel like my
voice is too feminine, and I'll never pass as a female,
87654321
I CHOOSE to love
and accept myself completely – just as I am!"
Do that for every
issue statement in your list from above.
You are welcome to
modify the positive choice
Power-Phrases so they are
more applicable
to your own specific needs.
Just make sure every statement is positive, personal, and in the
present tense
(as though it is already happening now).
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DO THIS
THIRD:
Perform Your Backward8
Procedure
Remember, this works the same way as anything else, the more
counting
repetitions you do,
the better your results
will be! So...KEEP
COUNTING!
Procedure
Select
a statement from your list above, and
mentally visualize
(imagine) yourself
feeling the stressful intensity that
you WOULD feel if you were actually experiencing
that
right now, then repeat each of your complete statements as
you have written
them out (including counting backward from 8)!
Keep repeating this process for each issue until you no longer feel any
intensity from the issue!
You will gain positive results for some issues much faster
than you will for other issues.
So, be patient, and your results will come for you.
Backward8
is a process, NOT an event!
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NOTE...
It is very common for
other thoughts or emotions to pop into your mind while you are counting.
While you're doing the exercises,
you will likely discover all kinds of new, unrealized
thoughts
and emotions that may have been
buried deep within your subconscious mind for
years...
possibly even since your early childhood.
If, at anytime, while you're working through any of the
exercises in this Backward8
course,
you notice any other negative thoughts or stressful emotions
popping up, even if they do not directly
apply to the
particular exercise you're working on at the moment, then
you should write
them down,
and take some extra time to clear all of those negative
issues, as soon as possible! It's THOSE
negative thoughts
and emotions that will get in your way as you go forward in
your life!
Go to page 2-5
Changing Your Negative Body Image – So You'll Always Feel Better
About Yourself
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