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Table of Contents

 
Read THIS Page First

 
What Causes Your Anxiety?

 
Your Best Anxiety Solution

 
Frequently Asked Questions - 1

 
Procedure For Use

 
Practice Exercises

 
Frequently Asked Questions - 2



 
Module 1
 Removing Emotional Trash

 
Module 2
 Helping You Feel Better
TODAY

 
Module 3
 Helping You Move
FORWARD

 
Module 4  Parents' Program

 
Module 5 – Siblings' Program


 
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Do you ever feel stressed out or anxious before
or during tests & exams?





Backward
8 Protocol for

Clearing Out Your Stress & Anxiety Before
& During Taking Tests And Exams

This powerful Backward8 procedure will neutralize emotional connections you feel
to each emotion that is causing your stress & anxiety while taking tests & exams!




DO THIS FIRST:
Make a list of every feeling of anxiousness you get from taking tests and exams.


Don't be afraid to add something to the list if it feels like an anxiety to you.

Please try to be as specific as possible. And just remember....
THERE ARE NO WRONG ANSWERS!!!

Start each statement in your list with the letter I

I've given you several good examples so you will know exactly what you need to do. You are welcome to use these stressful examples in your list, and add more of your own. These examples are offered to help REMIND you of many different types of common stressful issues.
You SHOULD STILL work through all of these examples even if they do not directly apply to your own situation.

Also, wherever you see a blank spot in a phrase, such as __________, please fill in the blank your own appropriate response
if possible (and if it is applicable).

 

What makes me feel stressed out or anxious before and during tests and exams?

I just cannot seem to concentrate while I'm taking tests,

I keep getting so nervous when I am taking a big exam,

I always feel so anxious before a big test,

I feel so worried that I will screw up my test,

I always feel worried about what will happen to me if I fail a test,

I can't take these _______ tests without feeling _______,

I get so frustrated when I can't remember the answer to a question on a test,

I get so angry at myself when I mess up on a test,

I get so anxious in the days leading up to a major exam,

I feel so frustrated because _______,

I get so stressed out over _______,

I feel worried about being so tired in class,

I feel so frustrated when taking tests because _______,

I keep making the same stupid mistake of putting off studying for tests,

I get so upset when questions pop up on a test that I didn't study for,

I feel so upset whenever somebody laughs at me,

I get so upset when _______ while taking tests,

I feel like no matter how hard I study, I just cannot seem to _______,

I keep having this stupid dream where I show up for my test...with no clothes on,

I just wish my teachers would let me _______,

I always get so frustrated at myself when I mess up my _______,

I get so irritated when I forget my ________ before a test,

I really HATE taking tests, because _______,

I just want to drop out of school and walk away from it all,

I really want to tell my _______ to _______,

I get so mad at _______, that I want to hit something,

I still feel some of this remaining stress from ________,


Please add more of your own feelings of stress and anxiety to this list.

Note:

Whenever you clear out the anxious intensity from the negative aspects of an issue, it can be extremely helpful if you replace that negative issue with an empowering, positive CHOICE statement (a Backward8 Power-Phrase).

And, there is nothing more empowering than making a definitive choice to do something. That is why this next step gives you a positive-choice affirmation immediately following the removal of a negative issue using the special anxiety-clearing exercises in this
Backward8 course.

PLUS, this step will help to make it a permanent habit for you to automatically LINK a positive thought to any negative issue, so that whenever something negative happens to you, a positive thought will immediately and automatically pop into your mind
instead of a negative thought!

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DO THIS SECOND:

Create Your Backward
8 Power-Phrases...


Write "Even though" in front of each of your statement, and
add 87654321 after your statement
s.

Then, add the following words to the end of your statement:
"I CHOOSE to relax, and just feel calm and confident at all times!"

For example:

If your statement was..."
I always feel so stressed out while I am taking tests."

Your new statement would then become:

"Even though I always feel so stressed out while I am taking tests,
87654321

I CHOOSE to relax, and just feel calm and confident at all times!"


Do that for every issue statement in your list from above.

You are welcome to modify the positive choice Power-Phrases so they are more applicable
to your own specific needs. Just make sure every statement is positive, personal, and in the present tense
(as though it is already happening now).

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DO THIS THIRD:

Perform Your Backward8 Procedure

Remember, this works the same way as anything else, the more counting repetitions you do,
the better your results will be! So...KEEP COUNTING!
 

Procedure
Select a statement from your list above, and mentally visualize (imagine) yourself
feeling the stressful intensity that you WOULD feel if you were actually experiencing
that right now, then repeat each of your complete statements as you have written
them out (including counting backward from 8)!
Keep repeating this process for each issue until you no longer feel any intensity from the issue!



 You will gain positive results for some issues much faster than you will for other issues.
So, be patient, and your results will come for you.
Backward
8 is a process, NOT an event!
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NOTE...
It is very common for other thoughts or emotions to pop into your mind while you are counting.
While you're doing the exercises, you will likely discover all kinds of new, unrealized thoughts
and emotions that may have been buried deep within your subconscious mind for years...
possibly even since your early childhood.

If, at anytime, while you're working through any of the exercises in this
Backward
8 course,
you notice any other negative thoughts or stressful emotions popping up, even if they do not directly
apply to the particular exercise you're working on at the moment, then
you should write them down,
and take some extra time to clear all of those negative issues, as soon as possible! It's THOSE
negative thoughts and emotions that will get in your way as you go forward in your life!


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