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Table of Contents
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What Causes Your Anxiety?
Your Best Anxiety Solution
Frequently
Asked Questions - 1
Procedure
For Use
Practice Exercises
Frequently
Asked Questions - 2
Module 1
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Removing Emotional Trash
Module 2 –
Helping You Feel Better TODAY
Module 3 –
Helping You Move FORWARD
Module 4 – Parents' Program
Module 5 – Siblings' Program
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Do you ever feel
angry or confused with your brother for
needing to change their gender?
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Backward8
Protocol for
Clearing Out Your
Anger & Confusion Over Your Brother
Needing To
Become A Girl
This powerful
Backward8
procedure will neutralize emotional connections you feel
to each frustrating and/or upsetting issue that is causing your unwanted
stress and anxieties!
DO THIS FIRST:
Make a list of everything that makes you feel frustrated or angry,
or that you have felt in the past about your brother needing to
become a girl.
Don't be
afraid to add something to the list if it feels like anger to you.
Please try to be as specific as possible. And just remember....
THERE ARE
NO WRONG ANSWERS!!!
Start each
statement in your list with the letter
–
I
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I've
given you several good examples so you will know exactly
what you need to do. You are welcome to use these stressful
examples in your list, and add more of your own. These
examples are offered to help REMIND you of many different
types of common anger issues.
You
SHOULD STILL work through all of these examples
even if they do not directly apply to your own situation.
Also, wherever you see a blank spot in a phrase, such as
__________, please fill in the blank your own appropriate
response – if possible (and if it
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What makes me feel angry or upset about my
brother needing to transition
to become a girl?
I feel
so mad at ______ because he has sprung this horrible news,
I get so frustrated with ______ whenever he expects me to
______,
I often feel like hitting ______ when ______,
I often get so angry at ______ when he acts all "girly" in public,
I feel so confused about where all of this came from,
I struggle to understand why _______ needs to become a girl,
I get so angry at _______ for putting me through this
_______,
I feel so angry with ______ for making the family go through
this _____,
I worry what the neighbors & relatives will think
about _____,
I feel so angry at ______ for confusing me with this ______,
I wish I didn't get so mad at ______,
I get so mad at my ______ when _____,
I get so frustrated when I mess up the on the proper pronoun
usage,
I feel angry with myself for not supporting ______ from the
beginning,
I feel all this frustration over ______,
I feel all this anger over ______,
I feel all of this anger toward _____,
I still feel some of this remaining anger from ______,
Please add more
of your own
anger-causing issues to
this list.
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Note:
Whenever you clear out the anxious intensity from the negative
aspects of an issue, it can be extremely helpful
if you replace that negative issue with an empowering,
positive CHOICE statement (a
Backward8
Power-Phrase).
And, there is nothing more empowering than making a
definitive choice to do something. That is why this
next step gives you a positive-choice affirmation
immediately following the removal of a negative issue using
the special anxiety-clearing exercises in this
Backward8
course.
PLUS, this step will help to make it a permanent habit for
you to automatically LINK a positive thought to any negative
issue, so that whenever something negative happens to you, a
positive thought will immediately
and automatically pop into your mind –
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DO THIS SECOND:
Create Your Backward8
Power-Phrases...
Write "Even
though" in front
of each of your statements,
and
add 87654321 after your statements.
Then, add the following
words to the end of your statement:
"I
CHOOSE to
relax and accept myself,
anyway!"
For
example:
If your statement was...
"I feel so
angry that ______ wants to become a girl."
Your new statement would then become:
"Even though
I feel so angry
that ______ wants to become a girl,
87654321
I CHOOSE to relax
and accept myself, anyway!"
Do that for every
issue statement in your list from above.
You are welcome to
modify the positive choice
Power-Phrases so they are
more applicable
to your own specific needs.
Just make sure every statement is positive, personal, and in the
present tense
(as though it is already happening now).
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DO THIS
THIRD:
Perform Your Backward8
Procedure
Remember, this works the same way as anything else, the more
counting
repetitions you do,
the better your results
will be! So...KEEP
COUNTING!
Procedure
Select
a statement from your list above, and
mentally visualize
(imagine) yourself
feeling the stressful intensity that
you WOULD feel if you were actually experiencing
that
right now, then repeat each of your complete statements as
you have written
them out (including counting backward from 8)!
Keep repeating this process for each issue until you no longer feel any
intensity from the issue!
You will gain positive results for some issues much faster
than you will for other issues.
So, be patient, and your results will come for you.
Backward8
is a process, NOT an event!
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NOTE...
It is very common for
other thoughts or emotions to pop into your mind while you are counting.
While you're doing the exercises,
you will likely discover all kinds of new, unrealized
thoughts
and emotions that may have been
buried deep within your subconscious mind for
years...
possibly even since your early childhood.
If, at anytime, while you're working through any of the
exercises in this Backward8
course,
you notice any other negative thoughts or stressful emotions
popping up, even if they do not directly
apply to the
particular exercise you're working on at the moment, then
you should write
them down,
and take some extra time to clear all of those negative
issues, as soon as possible! It's THOSE
negative thoughts
and emotions that will get in your way as you go forward in
your life!
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