I've given you several good examples so you will know exactly what you need to do. You are welcome to use these stressful examples in your list, and add more of your own. These examples are offered to help REMIND you of many different types of common stressful issues.
You SHOULD STILL work through all of these examples even if they do not directly apply to your own situation.

Also, wherever you see a blank spot in a phrase, such as __________, please fill in the blank your own appropriate response – if possible (and if it is applicable).

What shame, embarrassment, betrayal, or hurt do I feel over my child
wanting to live as a male (or anything else about your child)?

I often feel _______ at my child for putting our family through _______,

I feel so _______ with my child for doing this,

I feel so hurt by my child's acting like a male,

I feel like I did something wrong to _______,

I often feel like I should have shown more love and attention to _______,

I feel like I caused his _______ to dress and act like a male,

I often feel embarrassed to be seen with my cross-dressed child in public,

I often get a strong feeling of tension whenever somebody sees us together,

I feel so hurt when people give me grief about _______,

I don't feel confident in myself and my abilities when it comes to supporting my _____,

I feel ______ when I tell somebody that my child likes dressing as a boy,

I just don't know if I can shake this overwhelming ______,

I feel like I am not strong enough to get over this shame from _______,

I really feel so _______ when my child wears those ______,

I feel like such a complete fool for ________,

I don't feel like I deserve to have a good life,

I feel like I am not worthy of having good things like _______ in my life,

I feel so _______ because my kids are losing their sister,

I feel _______ because everybody must think of my child as a freak,

I still feel some of this remaining shame from ________,

I still feel some of this remaining embarrassment from ________,

I still feel some of this remaining betrayal from ________,

I still feel some of this remaining hurt from ________,

Please add more examples of your own to this list.