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What Causes Your Anxiety?
Your Best Anxiety Solution
Frequently
Asked Questions - 1
Procedure
For Use
Practice Exercises
Frequently
Asked Questions - 2
Module 1
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Removing Emotional Trash
Module 2 –
Helping You Feel Better TODAY
Module 3 –
Helping You Move FORWARD
Module 4 – Parents' Program
Module 5 – Siblings' Program
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4-6
Most of the issues
that people tend to worry about
...are issues over which they have
NO CONTROL!
Backward8
Protocol for
Easing Your Stressful
Worries
.
Here you will see
just how powerful the
Backward8
procedure truly is at
pro-actively neutralizing and breaking the emotional connections you
feel to each
worrisome issue that is causing your unwanted emotional anguish!
DO THIS FIRST:
Make a
list of every emotional worry and concern you feel about yourself,
or your loved ones.
Don't be
afraid to add something to the list if it feels stressful to you.
Please try to be as specific as possible. And just remember....
THERE ARE
NO WRONG ANSWERS!!!
Start each
statement in your list with the letter
–
I
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I've
given you several good examples so you will know exactly
what you need to do. You are welcome to use these stressful
examples in your list, and add more of your own. These
examples are offered to help REMIND you of many different
types of common stressful issues.
You
SHOULD STILL Backward through all of these examples
even if they do not directly apply to your own situation.
Also, wherever you see a blank spot in a phrase, such as
__________, please fill in the blank your own appropriate
response – if possible (and if it
is applicable). |
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What do I worry about – regarding myself AND/OR my loved
ones?
I feel
so worried about looking like a fool, and being embarrassed
by _____,
I feel worried that my trans-son will get hurt while
living as a male,
I often worry about what the other ______ think of _____,
I am worried that I won't be able to ______ as her loving
parent,
I am worried of what others will think of our family,
I keep thinking...."What if he gets beaten up?",
I feel so worried that he will get beaten up by _____,
I feel worried that I just can't bear going through this
_____,
I feel so worried that I won't have the ______ to be
supportive of him,
I feel so worried about ______, and it's keeping me awake at
night,
I feel so worried about the dangers of my trans-son living in
_____,
I worry that my trans-son may not get hired for a good job,
I worry that I will may a big mistake and lose my child
forever,
I keep worrying that I may have done something to cause this
______,
I often worry that I will have a panic attack when we go
somewhere together,
I feel so worried about being embarrassed when I ______,
I keep worrying about him being harassed by ______,
I feel worried that I will not know how to handle a ______
situation,
I am worried I will freeze up when the pressure is on me to
be supportive of him,
I am worried about my _____,
I keep worrying about _____, and it makes me feel so much
stress,
I still feel some of this remaining stress from worrying
about _____,
Please add more of your
own worries and concerns to this list. |
Note:
Whenever you clear out the anxious intensity from the negative
aspects of an issue, it can be extremely helpful
if you replace that negative issue with an empowering,
positive CHOICE statement (a
Backward8
Power-Phrase).
And, there is nothing more empowering than making a
definitive choice to do something. That is why this
next step gives you a positive-choice affirmation
immediately following the removal of a negative issue using
the special anxiety-clearing exercises in this
Backward8
course.
PLUS, this step will help to make it a permanent habit for
you to automatically LINK a positive thought to any negative
issue, so that whenever something negative happens to you, a
positive thought will immediately
and automatically pop into your mind –
instead of a negative thought! |
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DO THIS SECOND:
Create Your Backward8
Power-Phrases...
Write "Even
though" in front
of each of your statements,
and
add 87654321 after your statements.
Then, add the following
words to the end of your statement:
"I
CHOOSE to release these worries, and feel calm and confident, always!"
For
example:
If your statement was...
"I feel
so worried that our trans-son may get harassed."
Your new statement would then become:
"Even though
I feel so worried
that our trans-son may get harassed,
87654321
I CHOOSE to release
these worries, and feel calm and confident, always!"
Do that for every
issue statement in your list from above.
You are welcome to
modify the positive choice
Power-Phrases so they are
more applicable
to your own specific needs.
Just make sure every statement is positive, personal, and in the
present tense
(as though it is already happening now).
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DO THIS
THIRD:
Perform Your Backward8
Procedure
Remember, this works the same way as anything else, the more
counting
repetitions you do,
the better your results
will be! So...KEEP
COUNTING!
Procedure
Select
a statement from your list above, and
mentally visualize
(imagine) yourself
feeling the stressful intensity that
you WOULD feel if you were actually experiencing
that
right now, then repeat each of your complete statements as
you have written
them out (including counting backward from 8)!
Keep repeating this process for each issue until you no longer feel any
intensity from the issue!
You will gain positive results for some issues much faster
than you will for other issues.
So, be patient, and your results will come for you.
Backward8
is a process, NOT an event!
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NOTE...
It is very common for
other thoughts or emotions to pop into your mind while you are counting.
While you're doing the exercises,
you will likely discover all kinds of new, unrealized
thoughts
and emotions that may have been
buried deep within your subconscious mind for
years...
possibly even since your early childhood.
If, at anytime, while you're working through any of the
exercises in this Backward8
course,
you notice any other negative thoughts or stressful emotions
popping up, even if they do not directly
apply to the
particular exercise you're working on at the moment, then
you should write
them down,
and take some extra time to clear all of those negative
issues, as soon as possible! It's THOSE
negative thoughts
and emotions that will get in your way as you go forward in
your life!
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Clearing Out Your Fears & Apprehensions Regarding Your Family
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